Cher dating younger men
We hooked up for the first time at a huge house party I had that was filled with other early- to mid-20s people. But he was handsome, and I knew from friends he was successful — at the time, anything above a yellow basement seemed really appealing. I still don’t understand how people make that kind of money — but at 21, I really didn’t. He indulged me by following Laura Dern around instead of looking at the gardens, which was definitely not the first time she had been stalked by gay men at a garden party.I lived in a cement basement that, for some reason, I had painted yellow. Afterward, we had wine with some of his straight friends. Twenty years after becoming successful, what did it feel like now?And developing that is a slow process that I’m still working on.
A man who came of age in the 1960s, before the women's movement exploded, when his (more likely than not) stay-at-home mom did the cooking and cleaning, might have to work hard at accepting the fact that his life won't be just like his dad's.
The reason for this is that he's Scarily Healthy.
Open up a younger man's medicine cabinet, and you will see shaving gear, hair gel, a toothbrush, perhaps a squeezed-out tube of pimple cream, and, if he's something of a sophisticate, moisturizer.
It truly was a bad-looking room, but we were both drunk, and I was too confident to know how insecure I was. They were cozy and nice to me, but there was obviously an air of “Why did my 50-year-old friend invite a 21-year-old to my home and expect me to treat him like a person? I gathered my information, came, and then went home to my basement.
It seems so college to have someone walk in while you are hooking up during a party.
After 12 increasingly dreary years capped by a wrenching divorce, I couldn't imagine why women in my situation (childless divorcées) complained about the prospect of reentering single life. Wasn't finally having some laughs, romance, and excitement the way to take the "crisis" out of "midlife"?