Smart guys dating dumb girls
Then, if you feel it’s still significant, tell him about your connections and your clients later. As the conversation continues, he asks you about your business. You tell him you run/work for a company that helps large businesses with all their financial needs.He’s already happy to know you’re a woman who he can please and impress. Maybe you list some: their investments, payroll, taxes…blah, blah, blah.If you’re a smart, accomplished woman who wants to attract smart men, but you think men don’t want to date you because of your smarts…think again.While it’s true that some men prefer less “challenging” women, the guy you’re looking for – the interesting, mature accomplished man – has “smart” toward the top of his list of must-haves.He tells you that he hosts large business meetings here so they take very good care of him.You smile, say “that’s nice” and proceed to tell him that you do the same thing with another restaurant in town, in fact last week you hosted a dinner with 20 of your top clients and it was a great success.If you don’t let him, he is not likely to call for another date and he definitely won’t pick you as a partner. Simply receive his information and acknowledge it before you fire back.Take a breath, smile, and give him his due appreciation.
In other words, acknowledge you’re impressed and thank him for what he’s done for you.
The conversation then takes one of two paths: talk about his career or further talk about the financial needs of businesses. Smart men want to hear about your successful career and want to know that you can keep up, even surpass them, intellectually.
But men deal with the alpha-side of women all day long. If this man is going to drive home anxious to see you again, you don’t just want to stimulate his mind; you want to stimulate his .
Let’s face it: you’ve seen and done a lot, and anything he offers you can probably do for yourself.
The problem is that the men you want are the ones who want to impress you.
Now, I’m not saying you must shut up, smile sweetly and tell him how great he is.